Feels like my mom wants to put me out

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Not really, but it just kinda feels so.

I know she can't take care of me all my life, and i get that. But what am i supposed to do. Its not my fault she and my father practically babied me all my life. and its not like im not trying. its not easy getting work here, and not to mention my talent and interest are considered to be unique in my country, so if i have to apply for something out of my comfort zone, i dont know the first thing to do. Im lousy at interviews.

Im gonna be 25 this year and im still depending on my parents for everything.

What am i supposed to do? :(
I try to make money online, but no-one will commission me.
I feel so lost right now.  Sad Angel onion sad 

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It isn't easy.
Finding a job can be very difficult.
When I first got out of school I applied for any sort of Waiter / Cashier job, no matter what it was.
Those are by far the most common ones and usually very needed :)
Maybe try with these sort of jobs first? At least it gets you some income.

After that I looked for any sort of stuff in my field, but my degree was either too high or too low...
So I ended up as a cashier and proceeded to become a Baker. I have three jobs in this one I have now (cashier / baker / book keeping), but that keeps me occupied.
So perhaps just strive for the mentioned jobs above and then continue to look for a different one that suits you :nod:

To make you feel better I still live at home, a lot of people do.
There is no shame in it, living expenses have just skyrocketed; I cannot live all by myself. For one I couldn't afford it over time, for two, I would make a lot of debt that I could never pay back.

If needed try to apply for evening courses after you earned some money. You never know, you might find something else that might also interest you :nod:

Well, good luck in your search!
And try to be a bit more positive! That does help :aww: